All is now well with the Hawaiian. In fact it's better than it was before... I just had to take a little leap down an experiential lane I'd heard about. I'll share more below. β
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In a progressive world, we have indeed become better communicators and open minded to how relationships can work. Nothing is off limits these days - and I feel this is great. May the old societal construct of a nuclear family be dissolved! And instead, let's have this as a personal preference rather than a norm.
I thought it was an Ubudian thing, as I've been living in Ubud for over a decade now. A town known to be full of Peter-Pan's and where polyamory is as common as coconuts. But to be fair, even when I was in Sydney the same conversations are happening over there.
Everyone's just exploring.
And why not? π We do live on a planet of earthly delights. β Until it's not so delightful.
Influence:Recently I've been hanging out a lot with a friend who's in a polyamorous relationship.
As soon as I found out I turned to them and said... "Wow! I could never do that."
Experimentation:But of course over time you hear stories, how conflict is resolved and deeper connection made through authentic relating and positive communication. On a level, it's very mature to be able to explore emotions and connection openly in that way.
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I'm a pretty good communicator. I love relating, exploring emotions, behaviours and bringing harmony and deep connection into relationships.
But opening up this door to full disclosure of everything while dating.
Way too much for me. π
Even the Hawaiian was like "... Ok, if you want me too."
... I think he knew better than I did.
So now I have another story to tell you of how I jumped into the fire π₯
And promptly back out again lol...
But the thing is, you never know until you try. If you simply sit on your hands and wonder - one day you might look back and wish you did it anyway. Even if it did cause extreme pain and discomfort... β Hmm... π or maybe I'm simply a masochist for your reading pleasure lol.
Growth always happens one way or another outside of your comfort zone.
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I made it though the fire! π
β βπΌ TAKE ACTION: Reply to me... what's the one thing you've thought about doing in a relationship that you've never done before? Here's your opportunity to confess to me your curiosities (and of course it will be between you and me - sometimes great relief and courage can come from simply expressing what you desire).
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